The Next Book

The Book of Becoming

Building the man God created you to be, one ordinary choice at a time.

Thank you for being willing to share your story.

I'm working on a book about the experiences, relationships, failures, decisions, and moments that shape a man into who he becomes. It will include true stories from men who have been helped, challenged, corrected, encouraged, or changed by another man.

You don't need to be a writer. Answer honestly, in your own words. There are no perfect answers, and you can skip anything you'd rather not answer.

Before you start: most men take 20 to 40 minutes. Answer in one sitting if you can — if you close this page, your answers don't save. At the end you'll get a button to send everything back to me. Nothing is published without your permission.
First Question

Which sounds most like where you are?

The questions are different for each. Not sure? Pick whichever's closest.

Last Step

Send your story

Nothing has been sent yet. Choose how you'd like to send your answers.

Your answers go straight to Nathan. You'll see a confirmation when they land.

Your answers

Thank you for being honest enough to share your experience. Your story may help another man recognize that he is not alone, that change is still possible, and that the man he was created to become is still worth fighting for.
Received

Thank you

Your story is in.

Nathan reads every one of these himself. If you gave permission for a follow-up, expect to hear from him directly.

Know another man whose story belongs in this book? Send him this page.